adimoga

In a world where good exults in the face of bad, I wonder why this two extreme had to exist? Another state then good or bad I don’t think that exists, of course it can be a little better or a little worse. Any of the situations I mentioned are nothing else then lower scales or higher scales of good or bad.

We can say that a state of nothing or neuter exists, but I don’t think that this is a real state, because the neutrality represents the non existence of the two extremes. So, in other words, to be absent means that you can’t feel any of this two situations.

I think that the two states, good or bad are our two normal states. Because there are situations that we are feeling good, or we have success in every field that we want and there are situations when nothing goes right. This situations we can put them on the scale on good or bad. With other words, as much as there is a state we can place it.

The existence of these two situations (extremes) comes from our existence, and between this two situations we made an entire existence in accordance with what we see or feel around us.

For me, to love is a necessity. But looking forward from this necessity I think it is something beyond it. That something is, I think, the result of some strong feelings that goes to fulfill "Chosen one's function"(the most loved, appreciated, etc).

All these intense feelings, which we call love, go at the end to the practice of the function I mentioned earlier. This function is a necessity. This necessity comes from our emotional configuration, configuration that comes from the love we got from our mother and father (and from the ones who surround us, but the most important one is the love of our parents).

From what I’ve heard, felt, never the love of a mother can be the same with the love of the father and vice-versa. Love we receive from our parents make us emotionally normal. This normal has to be good for us, because in both cases we receive love (there can be the situation with just one parent, or none)… of course, as I said earlier it will be differences between the amount of love that is given by them. The love we feel that is the best for us we shall wanted from the other parents also.

After we came to a normal we will multiply with the relationship that surrounds us. Not only the relationship with out friends, husband, wife,� but with out kids also. In all the relationships we tend to be more and more appreciated and in the day to day activity.�

From all these the only thing that comes up is that love is nothing else then an exchange of feelings for finding The one.

First of all I think that to be loved is something we need from inside. Why am I saying this, because we all want to love and to be loved. So, a change is made. That something is just an exchange of feelings, I think, and they are actually a flow of energy which takes place in our biological matter.

What comes out from "what surrounds us ? " is that people we are a complexity of atoms that live in a world made 100 % of atoms. Of course at some level, because we know that cells exist and molecules ...etc.. And deeper then this construction we know that everything is actually energy at different levels.

Another important characteristic of us (humans) is the emotional part. The emotional state is formed from the love of our mother and father. As much or less love they will give to the child, this will grow emotionally proportional with the amount he/she receives.

In the case of a little child, lets say a girl,who doesn’t have the love of her father as much as the love of the mother, that girl will seek love (appreciation) mostly from male persons, to fullfil what’s missing.

The love given by the parents will never be equal. Or it can be the case that too much love is giving and as we know that not always what comes in big amounts is good.
So, the need to be loved, appreciated by someone is nothing else then a supplement of some feelings. These feelings come from the first years of our lives and are very related with that period. If we add to this fluxes of energy what we already have we will have at the end an universal rule, rule that I have explained in "universal rule".

For a healthier evolution we must understand what is surrounding us or better said, what is around the field we want to develop through. The only way that helps us understand something is the question “Why?”. It represents the only tool in searching answers, and on the other hand, only with it we can understand the meaning of effects.�

Psychological, this question is the only one which helps you in self-knowing. This self-knowing is actually your own psychoanalysis. With the help of this question we can understand why we have certain feelings, for example:

Why we need to be loved?
Why do we want to love?

Einstein told us through the equation E=mc2 that energy is equal with quantity and vice-versa. In other words quantity (substance) is nothing else then a big quantity of energy ( listen here the explanation of E= mc^2).

The atom is made of protons and neutrons which form the nucleus, and around them the electrons, spinning. The protons and neutrons are each made of 3 quarks and the quarks represents the smallest particle in universe.

Everything that is surrounding us, starts with an atomic construction.

What I understand from this analysis is that what surrounds us, from flowers, plants, sun, etc are nothing else but a form of energy on different scales.